Women Are Like Trophies
Just as I spoke yesterday about relationships being investments there is something else that men need to realize about women and how we view them. If you have been fortunate enough to be in sexual relations with a woman without actually being with the woman then you might understand the feeling that occurs when you see her with another man. You feel a bit of jealousy maybe or anger, but logically nothing should occur because you were never with her and never wanted to be with her.
So what’s the issue?
They are our trophies. This is the cold, harsh reality of being a man that women don’t want to know about. We have sex with you, put it down on our list and it’s like placing a trophy on the shelf. Seeing another man go for her or take her is like taking our trophy away and putting it on their shelf. It shouldn’t happen. Like trophies, we may forget about them hanging up, never dust them or even look at them, but we sure as hell notice when one goes missing.
The problem though is that many men mistake this for having actual feelings for the girl so they run back letting them know that they care about them and that they are ready to make the next step when they really aren’t. They just want their trophy back and this is why we get in trouble. You can’t mistake your own feelings of selfishness for actual feelings of the girl. It will utterly and completely fuck things up even more.
Now I know some women that you have had sex with you could really care less if they went with another man. Not all trophies are created equal. The important thing to understand about yourself though is whether you are looking at the girl as a trophy or someone that you really feel you can do something with long term.
I don’t tell you this to protect the women, but to protect you from continually getting yourself in trouble. I have done it before and there is a good chance I will do it in the future. As men we get caught up in stupid stuff like this and forget that we need to take a step back and understand where we are coming from.
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