Why players don’t trust women
So you meet a wonderful woman. You can’t be around her 24/7 and god knows why you would want to be around someone for that amount of time, but you find that when you aren’t around her you don’t trust what she is doing unless she is talking on the phone with you. Why is that?
Maybe you don’t like what you have done when she isn’t around. Speaking from experience here I can say that I have no problem with girls I am talking to going out with anyone (well maybe not ex-boyfriends) until…
And guys this is where we really mess things up. You might not realize you have done this yourself, but when I tell you what goes down and you think about it, you might have a better understanding of where I am coming from.
…I catch myself flirting/messing/doing whatever with other girls. As a player you want to be able to do what you want to do, but you know what goes down when you are out so you being to apply that to your woman as well. If you do it, what is to stop her from doing it? Funny thing is, most of the time (not all of these women are angels) they really are faithful and don’t do a damn thing. Hell, more times than not you will see a woman tell another guy that she has a man and is taken care of. How many times do we say that when women approach us?
We project our bad traits onto them and it just isn’t fair and usually leads to drama and the end of a potentially great relationship. Too many guys think that getting away with being a player on the side is fine, but don’t understand there are deeper ramifications for their shady ways.
Now if you are the way you are because a woman cheated on you after you did everything right for her I feel for you. I truly do. However, that doesn’t give you the right to sabotage all of your future relationships. If you are going to stay a player don’t get involved in relationships because you are doing more damage when you go out than you realize.
If you want to at least try to make it work cut all the bullshit off. It is not easy. Hell you might say it is damn near impossible, but you will find that if you stick through with it you will gain a deeper appreciation for your woman and the trust will only grow.
If she breaks that trust that you have busted your ass to maintain then yank her wig off and kick her to the curb. Can’t trust all of them.
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